WHO SAID YOU HAVE TO BE SKINNY?

I know a lot of full figured girls dont see their selves as sexy they have that self doubt and that leads them to having low self esteems,but who ever said that because its not true you are beautiful as you are you dont have to diet just to fit in.Being skinny is a lack of opportunities for me because you dont get to enjoy every meal that you love more especially those home cooked meals just because you have to look after your weight.Im not an expect in this but i know that you have to first accept your self the way you are before you expect the people around you to accept you too. YOU ARE BEAUTIFULL AS YOU ARE BUT THE QUESTION IS WHICH ONE DO YOU CHOOSE

THIS (SKINNY)                         

                                                   OR

THIS(FULL FIGURED)